Using AI for study honestly: a guide for students and parents
AI assistants can explain a hard topic at midnight, quiz you before a test and point out the weak paragraph in your essay. They can also write the whole essay, which is where the trouble starts. This guide is for students who want the benefit without the dishonesty, and for parents who want to know what to allow.
The simple test
Ask one question about any use of an assistant: after this, do I understand more, or have I only produced something?
Using an assistant to understand, practise and improve your own work is learning. Using it to produce work that you hand in as your own is not, whatever the tool. The same was true of copying from a guidebook or a friend. The tool is new. The rule is old.
Usually fine
These uses help you learn, and most teachers would welcome them. Your own school's rule still comes first.
- Asking for a simpler explanation of something from your textbook.
- Being quizzed on a chapter you have studied.
- Getting practice questions and trying them yourself.
- Asking why your answer to a practice question was wrong.
- Having your own essay's grammar corrected, with reasons, so that you learn the rule.
- Getting feedback on the structure of something you wrote.
- Making a revision timetable.
- Finding out what you missed in notes that you made yourself.
Usually not fine
- Handing in an essay, project report, assignment or code written by an assistant.
- Having it write an answer that you then reword slightly.
- Using it during a test, an examination or any work meant to be done alone.
- Having it do your homework sums when the point of the homework was to practise them.
- Using it to produce "your" opinion, reflection or personal experience.
The grey area
Some uses depend on the teacher and the task: translating a passage for a language class, getting an outline for an essay, using it to brainstorm project ideas, having it summarise a book you were meant to read. For one teacher these are acceptable help. For another they are exactly the skill being tested.
When you are not sure, ask the teacher before you do it. "May I use an AI assistant to check my grammar on this assignment?" is a reasonable question and shows good faith.
Know your institution's rules
Schools, boards, colleges and universities set their own policies, and they differ widely and are changing quickly. Some allow certain uses if declared. Some forbid all use in assessed work. Examinations have their own rules about unfair means, with serious penalties. We do not state the policy of any board or university here. Read your own institution's rules, and if nothing is written, ask.
Say what help you used
If you used an assistant in a permitted way, say so plainly if asked, or add a line where your institution expects it. For example: "I used an AI assistant to check grammar and suggest improvements to the structure. The ideas and the writing are my own." Being open protects you if questions arise later.
Why writing it yourself matters
It is tempting to think that if a machine can write the essay, learning to write is pointless. The opposite is true. The essay was never the point. The point was the thinking: choosing what matters, arranging ideas, finding the right word, noticing what you do not understand. Those are the abilities that examinations test with no assistant in the room, and that work and life will ask of you. A student who lets the machine do the thinking arrives at the examination hall without having practised.
It also gets things wrong
An assistant can state wrong facts, invent quotations and references, and make mistakes in sums. A student who copies its answer copies its mistakes, and cannot defend them when the teacher asks a question. Always check what it tells you against your textbook.
Prompts that keep you honest
Add lines like these so that the assistant coaches and does not do the work.
Do not give me the answer. Give me a hint for the first step and wait for me to try.
Replace the parts in [CAPITALS] first, or after pasting.
Do not rewrite my essay. Tell me its three biggest weaknesses and let me fix them.
Replace the parts in [CAPITALS] first, or after pasting.
I have solved this problem below. Check each step and tell me where the first mistake is, but do not show the full solution.
Replace the parts in [CAPITALS] first, or after pasting.
For parents
- Ask to see how it is used, not only whether. A child who is being quizzed or asking "why" is learning.
- Agree a rule at home: try first, then ask the assistant. The attempt comes before the help.
- Watch for sudden changes: homework finished very quickly, writing that does not sound like the child, answers that the child cannot explain.
- Protect privacy. A child should not type a full name, school, address, phone number or photographs into any chat service. Many services set a minimum age in their terms.
- Talk about mistakes. Show the child an example of the assistant being wrong. It is the best lesson in not trusting it blindly.
- Stay in touch with the teacher about what the school allows.
A fair summary
Use an assistant the way you would use a good tutor: to explain, to question you and to comment on your work. A tutor who sat your exam for you would be doing you no favour, and neither is a machine that writes your homework.
This is an independent site. It is not connected with any company that makes AI assistants. The prompts are plain text and can be used in any AI chat assistant. An AI assistant can give wrong or made-up answers: check anything important before you rely on it, and do not paste private details into a prompt.